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my husband is from Iran, where basically anyone born Muslim better stay that lest horrible things happen to them & their loved ones. so here we have the wonderful luxury of not having to be religious. my father grew up in Spain, during Franco's worst, when was Catholicism was forced, so he was over joyed to not be religious here. dunno about coins except for the great town squares in Barcelona where old men would gather to trade them & stamps. It seems that the worth of something is way different than actually getting someone to pay that, alas. as for exercise, I'm enjoying zumba right now - it's a total happiness pill amid extraordinarily friendly classmates, no matter the club

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the observation about a common faith binding together a culture is not without merit, even if that faith is secular/cultural rather than practiced. I experience this whenever I'm in Europe, more so on the continent than in British, but also there. Even in the secular culture of Europe (far more secular than the US -- they don't fight about whether religion should be taught in schools, etc. the way we do because. reasons.), I can fee a cultural cohesion that I don't feel elsewhere. Cultural monuments, traditions are quietly bound up in the common spiritual heritage and even though my thoughts on organized religion are... less than charitable... I can't deny that it gives the vibe in a European city a substance and a richness that seems utterly lacking in the US.

It's weirder in Britain, because the constitutional monarchy makes the sovereign the head of the church and I think that makes people in very secular modern Britain a bit more uneasy than in, say, France, where they got rid of all that stuff in the revolution. But it's still there and again, there's substance there that's lacking here.

PS -- for what it's worth, and your Lady may be the exception and if so, god speed on the calisthenics, but I have yet to meet a woman who pants after the guy in the video. He looks too much like a cartoon. (tbf, I don't experience sexual attraction to men (or women), so I may be attracting friends who feel similarly)

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